Allow eCPS-shaped rebuilds without ACS

[MaxGhenis]

Summary

• add granular donor-provider switches for ACS, SIPP, and SCF in PE-US-data rebuilds
• keep the existing all-donor --include-donor-surveys default behavior for compatibility
• enable --no-include-acs so eCPS-shaped runs can keep SIPP/SCF while dropping ACS multispine support

Tests

• uv run --extra dev pytest tests/pipelines/test_pe_us_data_rebuild.py -k "source_providers"
• uv run --extra dev ruff check src/microplex_us/pipelines/pe_us_data_rebuild.py src/microplex_us/pipelines/pe_us_data_rebuild_checkpoint.py tests/pipelines/test_pe_us_data_rebuild.py
• uv run --extra dev python -m microplex_us.pipelines.pe_us_data_rebuild_checkpoint --help | rg -n "include-acs|include-sipp|include-scf|include-donor"
• git diff --check